PeterWell, another blow to our marriage, I honestly dont think I can go on with our relationship after this. Recently talking with my oldest (6 years old), I asked about his new haircut and why the decision to go with this style (fohawk). Just casual musing and he said because its like "Lloyds" haircut...Who is Lloyd? Oh, Mommys "friend". I dont know which is worst, finding out this way or knowing shes see another man. I confronted her casually as well and sure enough, shes dating...already! We havent even filed yet and shes already playing the field. I was so heart broken over this. Yesterday at church I just broke down...havent cried that bitterly in over a month. Lord, what is going on? I really need help here. I stumbled upon some text messages and my wife is definately physical as well as emotionally tied at this point with this other man. How many women introduce a new man into their childrens lives as just something to do? I hate to think that this is the final nail in the coffin...I try, I sincerly try to seek the Lord on this but I think since she has a heart of stone, we will never be together. I need prayer, so badly. Starting to fall apart at this point...staying strong for the children but tonight Ill be home alone and I dont want to be lonely. Jesus, please hold me in this time of need.