***please be mature its a legitimate questions ***
What are u allowed to do and not allowed to do?
obviously not watch porn..seeing how it has ruined thousands of marraiges and we no its not good. But what about oral sex...is that ok to do in a christian marriage whether it be for a girl or a guy?
And basically there is a scripture that says not to defile the marriage bed does that mean that christians are not allowed to have any other type of sex then the one that is ment for procreation?
What is Gods intended purpose on sex?
please back it up with scriputre...sorry to be explicit. Didnt know how to word it i guess.
thanks
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27 replies on this topic
jake - 7/27/10 @ 9:01 AM
Well, scripture says that it has to be between one man and one woman, no animals, and no hurting eachother. I dont know of anything else..
Derrick - 7/27/10 @ 9:07 AM
i asked someone and they said
"Christians believe in a "oneness" that occurs in marriage.. that oneness adds a spiritual dimension to sex that is absolutely untouchable. SO its a physical, spiritual experience that surrenders your entire being...
"Defile the marriage bed" means by stepping OUT of your marriage ie: having an affair that type of thing.
There nowhere in the bible that says that sex is strictly for procreation. We humans are able to "mate" and become aroused throughout the month, unlike, many animals who just have periods of time when they are aroused and mate. We have amazing triggers, that are there for a reason. Sex is a wonderful expression of love, and the greatest physical pleasure we can offer each other.
Solomon is the best illustration...Chapter 4 on."
nd i think she basically answered it...I wanted to know what everyone else thinks....This topic is kinda uncomfortable for me to talk about though
Thirst - 7/27/10 @ 9:08 AM
In the immortal words of the Silver Ring Thing - "Once your married, its game on"
So, I dont think it really matters what type of sex the married couple has, it would be up to their tastes.
Derrick - 7/27/10 @ 9:29 AM
another question:
What consists of sexual immorality?
What about the celebate christian who is waiting for marriage or may never get married. WHY is oral sex considered sex to christians?...Well i guess because the whole idea if anyone looks at a woman with lust thing....but in reality can these actions be said to be wrong(refering to oral sex) based off the ten commandments?
Thirst - 7/27/10 @ 10:29 AM
What consist of sexual immorality? Lusting to one who is not your spouse, and having sex with one who is not your spouse.
Because someone is having sexual pleasure.
Kasey - 7/27/10 @ 11:53 AM
I dont believe oral "sex" or other types are necessarily right or wrong. Its up to the married couple to decide what they are comfortable and not comfortable with. I would assume it would be best for married couples to pray that God tells them what is right or wrong in their marriage.
Sarah - 7/27/10 @ 7:57 PM
Sorry...Im innocent, but what on earth IS oral sex, anyway? (haha, big-time blush fest!!!)
Ahem. Personally, I dont like the idea of all the weird stuff. Actually, isnt it called sodomy?
Lex - 7/27/10 @ 10:08 PM
Uhm, you could probably just look it up in a dictionary lol. Never thought I would be reading this on a Christian forum.
Kasey - 7/27/10 @ 10:08 PM
I dont think it would be a good idea to describe oral sex on here. Youd be better off finding out about it on your own.. just make sure google has safesearch on lol.
Sarah - 7/28/10 @ 5:28 AM
So, what I found in the Bible last night, about sodomy (and according to the dictionary--which doesnt actually HAVE a definition of oral sex, but still mentions it here--um, all that stuff falls under the category of sodomy), and the Bible does say that sodomy is a sin...
Sorry if that was unclear. =)
Okay...thats gross. Definitely not something to discuss on a Christian forum!!! Um...its not natural. I mean, God designed our bodies the way they are for a reason, and like, thats just plain gross.
Thanks, but no thanks, guys. Yuck.
Derrick - 7/28/10 @ 8:45 AM
idk sarah but i just googled the word sodomy...nd it is anal sex. but idk i think its something i guess we should pray aboput. I heard a preacher said that sex in marriage is a form of worship to God...Is this true?
jake - 7/28/10 @ 9:28 AM
"Once your married, its game on"
Haha Ive been saying that for years lol. Thats what my DI would say to us haha "Ok good, game on!" (And then we get jacked up haha)
anyways, im relaxed now..
Id believe it Nazira, I bet it is. At least the act of keeping ourselves pure till marriage.
Elizabeth - 9/6/10 @ 1:17 PM
There are soul ties that develop when people have any type of close, sexual relations, even when it's not standard intercourse, which is why we need to wait for marriage to have these type of relations; demonic spirits also transfer from sexual activity. I believe that what we do is between the two spouses. A lot of our ideals of what is right and wrong as far as sex is concerned are cultural interpretations of modesty, even the lack of teaching on it, and not even connected with Hebraic culture, which would place much of Scripture in its correct context. Also, the Bible says that sex between two men or two women is an abomination, not necessarily sodomy, which can occur between a women and man... However,we need to use wisdom. if it causes you pain, you shouldn't do it because pain is our body's way of letting us know something is wrong. Also, it's my understanding that sodomy can cause medical issues in that area. Also, like many aspects of orignal creation, the entire institution of marriage is supposed to mirror our relationship with God, which is why He is called our Bridegroom and we His Bride. This is a major reason our country trying to rewrite our marriage laws is a problem.
Elizabeth - 9/6/10 @ 1:26 PM
To answer your question, outside of marriage a Christian's lover should be the Lord....I also believe we should have our eyes set on Him until He directs us to our mates, and if we can't discern His will clear enough to know who they are, we aren't mature enough in Him to get involved with someone else. We still need to grow in Him more before bringing someone else into the picture. I think this is one reason so many Christian marriages fail; He is not the one initiating them. People date and get involved with someone, then expect God to condone their choice instead of them being led to His choice for their life, and then courting that person. We should keep our eyes set on Him alone until He specifically shows us who He wants for our lives.
Riley - 9/6/10 @ 6:56 PM
^^ I love what Elizabeth said, Let God choose your "mate" ! Even if you feel tired of waiting, just wait on God, and be patient ! :)
Sarah - 9/10/10 @ 4:55 AM
I agree with that =) God knows best.
On the topic of sodomy...Nazira, what about this?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sodomy
http://www.gaylib.com/text/clas12.htm
There it includes oral sex.
Ah...haha, erm. I think the second one is actually a gay site...
W0m@n0fG0d - 9/11/10 @ 10:49 AM
Sex is only meant for marriage and I guess in my opinion any sex is ok in your marriage except unnatural sex and I guess sodomy to me is unnatural. This is a weird conversation but sometimes things like these need to be answered too
Jon - 9/11/10 @ 4:55 PM
I agree with jake. once your married game on.
Sarah - 9/11/10 @ 6:27 PM
Even if it goes against the Bible?
Japlace - 9/11/10 @ 10:52 PM
@Jon and Jake. It may be morally right to have intimate relations WHEN YOU ARE MARRIED, but its not "game on". In fact, that phrase is a lil offensive.
As Sarah asked, is it "game on " even if it goes against the Bible? If it goes against the Bible, then its not truth. And if its not truth, its demonic. Now i know that sounds a lil far fetched, but thats what the Bible says.