I was born in a family oriented culture. I understand what people mean when they say family is always the most important thing because it is true that nothing can change the fact they are related to you by blood. My youth leader told me once that he loves his family in Christ more than his blood family. Luke 14 tells us to hate our family, which doesn't meant we don't care about them. We should choose God over our family and love Him so much more than when t compares your love for God and people, it is like you hate people. (Good to add that God helps your love for people increase)
This may be really hard but 1 John commands us to love our spiritual family. Does God want me to put family in Christ before my blood family?