Okay, so I'm having "boy" problems... I have two guys wanting to date me: My nonChristian ex, and a sweet, gentlemanly Catholic. Now, I would love to be just friends with both of them, but I have an awful time saying no to people, and especially guys! Does anyone have any advice?
Another question I have is whether I should even be friends with my ex at this point,. When he found out that I was considering dating another guy, he totally freaked on me and went into this mega guilt-trip. He was so manipulative, and it scares me. On another occasion, he was upset (about Facebook notifications, of all things), and started talking about raping me. I don't know whether he was serious or not... He's talked about all this violent stuff, and I don't know what to do. I want to be friends, yet I'm scared to make him upset.