My little brother is mad at me all the time and any little thing I do... it sparks him. I love him greatly and all I want is to help him. How do I do that?
how old is he? whats an example of a little thing you did that sparked him?
Hi Sandra. I have a little brother who is just like that. He gets angry a lot and does not listen to anything I say (Actually, he's my cousin brother). But later I found out that the reason why he gets so angry is because that I don't spend time with him at all. This makes him feel real lonely. Well of course, this can or cannot be the same with you depending on his age. But try to find out what's making him angry. God bless you.
I have a younger brother who also gets mad easily. I don't always control what I say to him. Sometimes I say things that I know poke at him. S I need to work on that. He needs to work on his reactions. And I would ask the same questions that Daniel did.
Thanks to every one who responded to this. My brother is 9, he will be 10 in september:)
And and example is I was giving him some advice the other day, i told him not to call his friend an idiot, especially around his friends grandfather. He blew up and told me how I'm always trying to get him in trouble:(
ok well then I have to say that you shouldn't worry about it as though its your own problem. this is your little brother's problem, and you should try asking him questions to see if he understands what he's doing. he sounds like he's choosing to sin, to me
I can definitely relate to what you are going through. Younger siblings can be really hurtful sometimes. It's like I try to reach out to my brother with love and kindness and sometimes he is grateful; other times he overlooks it and gets mad. Really all you can do is work at doing your very best (with God's help) and not saying things to annoy him or things you know are wrong. The other thing is pray. Pray about your relationship with your brother. I always used to pray about my relationship with my brother and then one day I realized how much better it was! I still need God's help every day to be the best sister I can be, but He has already helped me a lot!
my younger brother doesnt really get mad, but hes really self centered.