Okay, so from the family I come from our men are taught from a young age to be tough and to be protectors. We all play football and lift almost daily for about 2 hours. My goal in posting this isn't to brag, but to shed some light. My reason for posting this is when the men of my family go to church we feel uncomfortable because there are a lack of Men's men in the church. I feel constantly surrounded by soft men who keep talking about God's love, but have never addressed serious issues like lust and addictions. so my big question is...why is there such a lack of strong, tough christian men in the church?